{"id":438,"date":"2015-12-25T19:00:18","date_gmt":"2015-12-25T19:00:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.darkpoint.net\/?p=438"},"modified":"2015-12-25T19:00:18","modified_gmt":"2015-12-25T19:00:18","slug":"rant-bar-humbug","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.darkpoint.net\/?p=438","title":{"rendered":"[Rant] Bar Humbug"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m not a fan of Christmas or birthdays this is possibly not a surprise to most people.<\/p>\n<p>I watch people go into meltdown try to make things perfect and host the perfect Christmas dinner.&nbsp; There is far too much food and enforced merriment.&nbsp; There is a arms race of buying more things and doing more elaborate things and that just makes me despair.<br \/>\nI also disliked the saturation and commercialism..<\/p>\n<p>Oddly I also don&#8217;t really like receiving presents, most things that I want I already have.. or are far too complicated or expensive to be sensibly bought as presents.. I have previously published a handy present buying guide, to help people who feel compelled to get me something..<\/p>\n<p>What I most dislike is the disappointment*.&nbsp;&nbsp; I want to be grateful that someone has clearly spent money and time getting me something that they think that I would like.. but I don&#8217;t need another scarf, or a t-shirt, or a bottle of shower gell, or some other executive toy.. but while I am unwrapping things, the voice inside my head is shouting &#8220;what is this landfill what on earth were you thinking.&#8221;**<br \/>\nI was because of this that I wrote a buying guide in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>This Christmas I had one of these moments that I am trying not to be disappointed about..<br \/>\nI picked up one present, and it had the reassuringly satisfying sound of Lego,*** however when I unwrapped it, it was a non Lego building block system..&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br \/>\nI know that I should be happy, but I just feel overwhelmed with disappointment.<br \/>\nPart of me just can&#8217;t comprehend why someone would buy non Lego as a present, and not expect it to be disappointing..<\/p>\n<p>At the moment I can&#8217;t even bring myself to open the box to investigate.<\/p>\n<p>* Gosh I sound like an ungrateful brat.&nbsp; Or just a grumpy thing, I know that I have been a bit down recently so that isn&#8217;t helping..<br \/>\n**&nbsp;&nbsp; Even writing this is making me feel bad, that I should be more polite, more thankful, and less cynical and depressed about it all..<br \/>\n*** Something that is listed on the Darkpoint care guide..<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m not a fan of Christmas or birthdays this is possibly not a surprise to most people. I watch people go into meltdown try to make things perfect and host the perfect Christmas dinner.&nbsp; There is far too much food and enforced merriment.&nbsp; There is a arms race of buying more things and doing more &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.darkpoint.net\/?p=438\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">[Rant] Bar Humbug<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[279],"tags":[92,280,282,281,91,80,81],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5aE50-74","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.darkpoint.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/438"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.darkpoint.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.darkpoint.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.darkpoint.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.darkpoint.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=438"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.darkpoint.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/438\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":439,"href":"https:\/\/blog.darkpoint.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/438\/revisions\/439"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.darkpoint.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=438"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.darkpoint.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=438"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.darkpoint.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=438"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}